I was watching one of the daytime who's my baby's daddy show, when my mind started to wonder back to the day when I was at the height of my player type career. Back in the day, when I was down to 5 or so ladies, that was considered a slump. lol.....
Anyway, the rules and morals of the day have greatly changed. Sure we indulged in the same debauchery yet, those of us that hung as friends always had certain rules. We never hit on the sisters of friends unless we were considering a serious relationship and we never hit on each others girlfriends without first checking in.
Checking in was a way to prevent misunderstandings. It was basic hood respect. We would say to our friend, "hey bro, yo gal been calling me, she acts like I can get widit, what's up?"
Checking in served two main purposes. One....it served to give a friend heads up so that he wouldn't be tripping if somebody else hitit. Two.....sometimes old boy didn't care, which meant I could hitit should I choose to do so.
The Homegirls in the hood followed the same principles of respect and fair play. Misogynist views were looked upon like easy marks waiting to be minipulated. Some of the girls were good and knew how to work it. Yeap, we had our urban legends. One girl was so bad that she liked to slow dance with the fellas and make them lose themselves in public. She would leave em in the middle of the dance floor smiling, embarrassed and wet.
So anyway, I'm curious. Help me out and take my fidelity poll on the left. What do you do if a friend's spouse hit's on you?
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